Transcript Date Night
Transcript Date Night
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Hello? Are you doing? I am Dr. B. What’s your course. And we just finished our, well, we have, this is going to part two of our Date Night we just finished having a great comedy night at stress factory in Bridgeport. Yeah. Fun times cold out now. Oh my God. It’s freezing. I tell ya. If you’re not used to this weather, I dare you stay inside. It’s so cold, but you know, when your love your girl and your investing, you go out into the cold and Tundra and make me cold and Tundra.
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It’s really cold. It’s so cold. Yeah. But again, you know, again, people with w w we are just trying to encourage couples today. It is very important. Yes, we were married just so just a couple of months, but you know, it’s really making your lady feel important. And this lady is beautiful. She’s beautiful. Inside and outside. I mean, she had fans all over the comedy show asked for autographs. They just went past me. Didn’t see me. I’m in this orange thing.
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They see me fall into the bathroom. I tell ya. Yeah, I am just the bombers. You know, old man, Real old, man. Real but even people on the docket, he recognized, well, you know what, guys, that’s a good point. Let me talk about that real quick. You know, a lot of guys want a beautiful woman and I definitely have a beautiful woman, but can you handle the pressure of dealing with a beautiful woman? You know what I’m saying? And all the, the, the, the, everyone wants to talk. I mean, people took pictures with her. Ain’t no, ain’t no on, take a picture with lonely me. They don’t want to tell the old man river, am I right or wrong?
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Am I wrong? I see now she’s being coached. Now can actually be incorrect. Now, she’s now she’s not, she’s accused me not being friendly. Everybody take a picture. Matter of fact, you get out of the way, took the picture for us. I’m not, you know, not mad at all. I’m just happy, but mean, that’s a, that’s a quick point a guy. You know, if you, if you get with a beautiful woman, just understand, you got to share, her sharing is a sharing, is caring.
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Sharing is scary.
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Why does that you think, why is Sharon’s Karen? So sorry.
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You have to share. Yeah. We’re not just for each other. We’re also for other people.
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Right, right, right, right. Yeah. You know, Kent came, man, and it’s beautiful. You know, I did my counseling upstairs, your accounts and downstairs. And then even after the coaching. Yeah. I’m sorry. A counseling is a bad word coaching. She was doing downstairs counseling. I am the counselor. Yes. Yes. And so even that, you know, people talking to all the way to the, to the comedy show, because your mind, my baby is very important. And I think it’s very valuable to not only deal with a beautiful woman, but also don’t squeeze her. You know, don’t feel that she can breathe. You know, suffocating is a crime, you know what I’m saying?
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Yes, it is. Yes, it is. It’s a crime, but well, but we kind of knew that going into it, right.
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The going into each other that, you know, we have to share ourselves because you’re in different facets of the community. I’m in different facets of the community. It’s kind of a, I guess it’s a thing to talk about
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On your own green to my family colors. Okay.
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Oh my goodness. We wish your friend, what’s your friend’s name,
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But, but that’s a good point though. I mean, do most couples understand that you have to share your spouse with the community.
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You have to share them,
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But not to the extent you don’t share it to the extent that now you’re not talking to each other, you know, that’s, that’s a problem too, because then that’s overkill. Yeah. Right. Because how can you reach the world? And you don’t reach the one that you live with and love with
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That would be sort of hypocritical maybe,
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But, and it’s, you look always globally. I say to you, I say to you in, in front of the camera and say, T bond, it can be a very beautiful woman with a beautiful eyes of yours and you do well. So we’re not gonna be here and doing all that. Do you notice person, Joe, Joe, Hey, Joe, Joe, are you doing your job?
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And what does she coach in? What do I coach and, Oh, I see your people are hierarchies. Hi, Helen Davis, what do, what does, what do I coach? And I am a transfer parts, work transformation. So basically I’m a coach. I’m a, not a life coach. It goes a little bit deeper. I specialize in parts work and parts work is a very in-depth deep conversation with your inner parts. So it’s a lot of deep healing, a lot of transformation going on. And if you, if you are open to truth and open to Keeling and just open to speaking with someone and open yourself, like you will love, love the transformation that happens.
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So I teach people how to talk to their inner inner parts and their inner sides and how to be one with them. And from that comes self leadership and self healing and just the whole process of amazement. So I, so that’s what I do. Some people say, Oh, your life coach, I’m not a life coach, not a life coach. So, Oh, so yeah, my, my information is on the screen as well. So yeah.
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Tell them they just in case they, so
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Me, my email, if you want to reach me as coach Porsche at sit sip, chat.com, sit and sip, chat.com is a Connecticut run business by myself. And it’s a coaching business. I have a mentor, which is my son. He mentors around communities and all over Connecticut. If you, if, if anyone wants to know Tony Fox, most people know Tony Fox around the, around Connecticut. If you mentioned that name, people drop, they’re like, Oh, Tony thoughts. So he’s a great mentor. And I also have a medical piece, which is my brother, Percy Gorham.
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And he’s a part of sit, sip and chat as well. So my website, it’s WW,
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I’m a PR guy. That’s why I’m just a PR guy.
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Check that calm. If you want to know more about me and about my coaching, you can definitely visit there and read up and learn a little bit about myself and about the 100 days of this discipline journey that I’m currently on. Sure. So for those that are joining the group, we have 58 more days left. We are approaching quickly approaching day 43, right? No, I’m sorry. Day 53 day 53. No, I’m sorry. Date
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42 34 43. We’re approaching the 40, 37 days left
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57 days left at 12 midnight. So, so that 100 days of discipline journey, you get free coaching in there. So if you’re a part of it, we ask that you find a part that you want to discipline. For some it’s eating for me, I’m doing like a sofa journey and it’s no salt, no oil, no flour and no alcohol,
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No blaming on <inaudible>
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For Porsche. So I went from sipping like a lot daily to like I’ve 43 days of no, no sippy.
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Yeah. A I am a, I compliment you that. Yeah, we did. Date Night and I didn’t even ask for any sets.
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I’m not even tempted by it.
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Let me compliment you that you have not, your personality has not changed.
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You said. And I always say that I’m still the, he says I’m still the same crazy Porsche. So yeah, I don’t Self because I don’t drink to sip. I don’t drink to drunk. That is just a habit of, I’m not going to drink soda or, you know, or Kool-Aid or, or juice. My sip of choice was something like rum or like a nice hot toddy pieces or some coffee with like some nice specialty stuff in it. So, well, you don’t drink. So somebody has got a drink for us,
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But don’t right now don’t don’t rank. I, I do drink. I drink me some Porsche
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Now. See, you will drink the sodas and stuff though. I don’t drink that stuff. That stuff is poison. Just drink.
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All right. As soon as the question here,
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Do you train Others? Is that for me or for Tim? Do I train Others for coaching? No, but do I train you how to deal with your parts? Yes. So, no, I don’t certify anyone if that’s what you asking.
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Okay. But then she’s asking me that because I, I haven’t trained anyone in counseling, but if you’re interested, we can definitely talk about that down the road, but just wanted to come on and I’m, we’re going to try to do this every time we do a Date Night just,
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Well, we do a lot of date nights, so I just actually have to, Oh, wait. So you guys, you guys have to see Lavelle prophet, or like God it was like, it went by so fast. We were like, it’s the time off already. Like we were there, but he’s
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So
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Great. It was really before we knew what he was getting off the stage and we’re like, wait a minute. He’s only been on 15 minutes.
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I’ll tell you before,
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Because we were laughing so hard when he was good though. Yeah. He was really, really good there. Yeah. So you have to see him if he’s in your area, I’m not sure, but Connecticut Bridgeport. Good. Old Bridgeport’s open.
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Yeah. Bridgeport. And it was a, it was kind of packed to swallow. How you doing? But yeah, guys, I cannot stress it. Enough. Women want to feel special. They want to feel like,
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Have fun and laugh. Just think your girl, like, it’s very simple
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Again, guys, as I will scream,
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We wanted, yeah, we want to be dated. And like, even though it was freezing cold,
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I went out there. I have pneumonia. I’m kidding. I don’t have pneumonia, but you know about that. I’ve I’ve double code on, have my hat on. I should explain my hair. I’m not sure. Why should I claim that
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You gotta keep your hair out because he, he wears it all crazy looking
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Wild and crazy guy I am. But what really, you know, just taking time out with her and my schedule’s busy or her schedule is busy, but Friday night we have made it our, our date night where we just a lot of fun here. You know, it’s just, just because last night we were up till two, one o’clock we were up til super late. I was doing my job. I do my secular job. Then she was working on one of our projects, many projects. So we will have to one o’clock. And I was saying to her, I said, you know what? I love this. You know, we are, we’re connecting, she’s on one computer.
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I’m on my computer. And you know, we were kind of silent, but we were doing our work and connecting and, and I told her how, how beautiful that was. Cause, cause to me that was powerful. Whether we’re in a play, you know, I like to play or whether I had at stop it, stop it. And like, it, it was a weather and leave me alone. Whether in play, whether it work, we were connected. I didn’t feel, I mean, did it feel good to you that one o’clock in the morning working?
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Well, yeah, because when I write it Night or, you know, when I’m, when I’m writing, it’s not like, you know, someone saying, you got to cut off, you know, it’s like, you get it, you understand it. We’re like music, you know how musicians get each other? Like they’re up, like bandshell band shelling all night and playing music. And we’re up like doing other things much similar on a different scale.
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Right, right, right. So, so you know, whether, whether this play or whether it’s worth, you know, it’s, it’s, it’s really keeping that connected. And, and, and, and I will tell you, gentlemen are out there and ladies is making that investment. Why are marriages, souls are wedding successful? People invest into the wedding, but after the wedding is done, they stopped the investment. And this woman has been a blessing to me and my life, a life of my children, you know, even which come to church, people don’t get about me too. Well,
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That’d be great. They stop it. That’s because I hardly go to jerk that’s because I’m not there often
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They is surround. Okay. Yeah. Funny. That’s true. But again, guys, can you handle a woman that will bring before bringing a freshness or bring, bring, bring joy? You know, guys, even though they clear it, if you take up the whole place and give them the room for your, for your wife or your significant other to shine, that’s it, that’s it. Then that’s, that’s a bad relationship. That means you’re jealous. No, I mean, if your girl don’t shine, that mean you got bad picket, you had the devil, you got a bad place.
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I see. I see it. Like if the, if the woman does it shine, it’s kind of a reflection of the guy too, right? Like a if I’m yeah. What if I was all like, messy, that means your messy too.
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Right? That’s true. I don’t, you know, you know, you know,
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I see it. It’s like a reflection of each other, even, you know, even though we’re individuals. Yes. We are individuals. I think if one is not thriving, the other it’s kind of is a reflection of lab, like a mirror reflection of that.
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Mm. Yeah. It’s, it’s, it’s really understanding that, you know, my, my, my baby brings a lot to the table and, and I really appreciate your time. I really don’t. But he says that he’s sweet to the people and bring that to the, the people, no drama. Oh Lord have mercy. I just don’t have time for, I think you got that.
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I, it, because I just, I, I mean, I don’t have time for drama. I’d rather, I’d rather be somewhere sipping and having a great time than to be like full of drama. Like, I don’t have time to, I don’t have time for drama.
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This means it’s too involved in other things to this week, I had to do counseling. I got to start counseling, unwrapping myself. Date yeah. She getting ready for the night and she’s a rapper. Yes. Well, this week I had to do a lot of work for my secular job counseling. I had a death I had to deal with from our church to debts. Yeah. To dos. And then I had something to do with the Knoxville police department. But in all that, my girl was cool.
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She doesn’t know, I didn’t say this. She doesn’t know how back in the day that, that wasn’t a fight that would have been issues of people for over debt. Yeah. That, that would have been,
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I know some people don’t understand service, so I I’m a person that I understand service. We’re not going to hinder each other service. Like all the things that I have to do sometimes, and to, to run out or to do some of the things that I need to do for, for people or just for the community. I understand.
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So that she understands, she,
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You stopping me when I go to do something, you know what I mean? So I can’t. Oh,
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Well, it would be so unfair. Well, she baptized me the first time we started dating, I would sit here and I was walking in. He said, I got to go. And I go minister to somebody. Well, she said, I got to do a God street team.
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I’ll be right back, make yourself comfortable going there. And she left me, I just said, and I didn’t take that long. It was like 45 minutes or an hour. And it wasn’t that long,
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20 minutes. It was
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Not.
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But that was when I was like, wow, this girl ministers, like I minister different a different environment, but the same, same goal.
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I don’t know if I would call it a minister, but I would call it support, like definitely a support for the community.
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Right. Right. And so, so, so this week, I mean, it was, it was like, wow, this woman is amazing. She, she saw, and I’m not going to detail, but we found out something on our last day Night Friday. And then it culminated on, I got the call, what Monday or Tuesday, but, and I told us that I liked how you saw this issue from the beginning. As soon as I got what the problem was, I showed it to her. And, and then, you know, so when I had to go do something for the community, she was like, Oh, what happened? And that’s one thing, guys, you know, they, it’s not that they nosy, but they want to know what you’re doing.
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Did it, they did it.
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Yeah. We are kind of nosy.
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She could fast anyway. So, so when you let them in early, it makes the transition. Yeah.
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Well, you know, women are curious, like we just, you know, we have all these questions asked, like our kids probably get it to work, get it the worst, you know, like, Hey, what are you doing today? I wasn’t. I was with him. We have a thousand questions. Just, we’re just curious and think of when we stopped being curious as well, when we stopped being curious and
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You come on two o’clock in the morning, she don’t care using trouble. You bet Cleveland, both eyes open,
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You better start packing your stuff. Cause she’s probably done. Thank you. Thank you, Daphne. Thank you so much. I, I will accept that. I do accept that. He always says that bring a lot to the table. I feel like I, I bring so little compared to the things that he brings, but, but thank you. Thank you so much for that.
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Yeah. So, you know, again, we’re going to try to, when we do our Date now, which is every Friday, we just to try to come on, say a few words and just encourage w because again, you know, life is short, you know, loss of former member of the COVID last week and you know, people dying around us, Cicely Tyson. I mean, some people are, are leaving and sort of, so I think for us, it just makes sense for us to enjoy the one you would love the one with the other one you With. Hmm.
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Okay. That is a song.
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I know.
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All right. I think we’re done for today. Are we going to sit here and watch them? HBO, max and just chill out? Yeah.
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Yeah. What are we going to do? What are we going to watch? He usually finds really, really good movies. So we’re going to get comfortable.
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The reason why I find movies, because the church of God Christ made me find movies by God. When I was young, they told us we couldn’t go to movies. So catching up with movies. So y’all blame that, right?
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Yeah. He’s a movie buffet. He can find really, really good movies. And we like the movies that we can’t like predict what was the last movies that we saw at the moon?
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Oh, Oh, pretty young thing.
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Oh, it was a pretty young. No, no, no. Young lady promise. Young woman or something. Promising young woman moving. Oh my God. It’s such a good movie. And what’s the one with Self before that it was another one too. Promising young woman or promise young woman or something like that. Yeah.
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Oh, Oh, for town.
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Yeah. Yeah. That was good too. Yeah.
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Yeah. So guys take care of your girl. You know? I don’t know. You love her.
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If they’re not going out, just play games in the house,
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Play games in your house, you know, do things together. Color. Yeah. Get covered in a book.
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It’s nice therapy as nice. It’s it’s very good. It’s fun. What’d you call it with me. Did you call it with me one time? You did that one time with me and she hasn’t done it since then. Cause I don’t call it within the lines. It’s not true. You should see my personality outside.
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Yeah. And I, and the light is that you got to do C, C, C, C. I’m not gonna be controlled by the pitcher in the line. I say, you ain’t go control me. No. You know, I see a little dot.
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We had fun coloring though. It was a random. And I was like, Hey, you want to her? And he goes, yeah. Okay. He just goes along with the flow, right?
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Again, when you make life
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Without the kids color, without the kids,
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Mommy, mommy, mommy done been laid off. Oh wow.
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Knock it over.
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Mama laid off. All right. We’re going to lay out mother today. She goes, mama went on, strike.
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Mommy goes on strike. Yeah. There’s nothing wrong with going on. Strike. Take time for yourselves, ladies and men too. You know, there’s a lot of men that do a lot too. Some men take time for yourselves too. We do. We do. Alright. You want to say back. Thank you guys for watching.
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So I forgot the date. I think it’s the last, People’s a watch. And you could be doing that to them.
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Like your little tiny chickens Hill.
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You know what? Before we end this thing guys in the kind of whatever, when you grow up
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Cute,
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Cute. I’m rugged. You know, I get Night Daphne. I got, I got, I got, I got lots. They call me cute.
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Let it go.
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All right. People. Thanks for joining us. It shows you that our websites and she would show them that. Okay. All right. People, God bless you.
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Everyone have a good night. If your life, if you’re in Connecticut, man, it is cold out there. Everyone stay warm. It’s yeah. It’s like really cold. It’s cold. This is nice cuddling weather. So 19 is 19 degrees right now. I don’t know. It was, it was Hmm.
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Yeah, it is cold. And I was laying because I’m really black. So I was laying.
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Yeah. I mean I had on, I even had on like long sleeve, long sleeves today, so
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All right. People, we don’t want to go more than 30 minutes. Huh?
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It’s been 30 minutes already. And we’re getting like the bell Crawford bye guys, till next time.
